Growing up, I had a hard time relating to Virgo. I didnt feel like it fit me very well, and I was always wishing I had a much more exciting sign. The older Ive gotten, with more life experiences under my belt, I cant even deny it. I fit so well into Virgo now. Its the single most misunderstood zodiac sign, often labeled as drab and boring. If you know anything about me, you know Im anything but those things. I have to do some hunting to get a good reading on anything Virgo, but when I do find the correct understanding of being a Virgo, its usually spot on for me.
I never really understood how star charting worked when I was younger. I kinda just gave up, mostly because the internet wasnt a thing yet and all I had was some books my mom owned. Since I feel like Im going through a rebirth of sorts, understanding my star chart has helped me understand myself better. The only thing I dont really identify with as a Virgo is how Virgos are perceived seually. Usually described as uptight and a no nonsense perfectionist in bed, who prefers long term relationships without any frills (bondage, toys, etc) and a constant need to please their partners, I happen to be NONE of that. Well, I DO enjoy pleasing, which is why I make a great sub. I do enjoy being in long term relationships, just with all the frills. Ive read some articles that really dive into the sexuality of Virgos, saying that we're actually the secret freaks of the zodiac and people just easily dismiss the Virgo as a sexual creature. Which, in my case, makes much more sense.
Sun Sign: Virgo
Ruler: Mercury
Keywords: Discrimination, Synthesis, Service, Practicality, Precision, Acuity, Application
Positive Expression: helpful, modest, unassuming, sharp, clear, penetrating, discerning, meticulous, calm, self-reliant, charitable, organized, responsible, closeness to nature.
Negative Expression: critical, lazy, slavish, obsequious, servile, scattered, manipulative, indecisive, forgetful, confused, irresponsible, nervous, stressed, slack.
Toward the end of the month of August, the Sun leaves Leo and enters the sign of Virgo. After the pomp and grandeur of Its’ segue through Leo, the Sun arrives in Virgo to get down to business, and tend to more practical concerns. Those born with the Sun placed here are often motivated by an urge to find practical outlets for skills, talents and abilities, with an emphasis on being useful. Consequently, those born under the sign of Virgo can be humble, and at times self-effacing. It is the counterbalance to all the hubris of Leo. The creativity expressed through Leo must be harnessed through Virgo so that something can be harvested from all the growth that has occurred.
From this perspective, the sign of Virgo is especially concerned with processes of discrimination and synthesis, as Virgo symbolically governs the integration of personal resources so that these become most effectively utilized. Accordingly, Virgo is concerned with efficiency, practicality and economy of means. This can be expressed on both physical and intellectual levels, internally or externally. The urge to be of service is often paramount for this sign, and Virgoan individuals tend to be driven more by the need to be useful than the need to be recognized. As a mutable sign, Virgo is also characterized by qualities of duality, and Virgo tends to have dual strengths. Virgoans also show the ability to blend logical analysis with practical knowhow owing to their highly developed degree of mental acuity.
Practicality and usefulness are essential attributes of this sign. Symbolically governed by the element Earth, Virgoans are apt to preference grounded and no-nonsense ways of making things happen. Sometimes Virgoans need to project themselves strongly and see themselves as being in charge, but more often Virgo tends to work best as part of a team. Virgo will often prefer to contribute quietly from the sides, assisting other characters more intent on recognition, to achieve goals and get things done. They tend to be specialize in working behind the scenes, lending quality control, practical efficiency and detailed help to achieve the most efficient and well-organized result. Virgoans tend to achieve this by providing the practical planning and attention-to-detail necessary to make things happen. Their ability to focus on what is essential and necessary is a great strength of this sign.
The Virgoan individual will seek to improve and refine whatever task is at hand. The process of discrimination is the fundamental to this sign. On the external level, this can occur in obvious ways, earning Virgo the reputation for cleanliness and order. Virgo is traditionally associated with lists, details and protocols, and many (though not all) Virgoans will not feel comfortable unless a well-organized routine and structure is put into place. Yet not all Virgoans display the external characteristics of neatness and tidiness. For other Virgoans (more concerned with their inner lives), discrimination and order happens on a mental and psychological level, so that they become rigourous about maintaining a healthy and efficient body/mind.
As this is also a sign of mental acuity, many Virgoans are blessed with a sharp and critical mind. Virgo often shows a detailed capacity for rational analysis- the ability to pull something apart into its component pieces, see how they fit or work, and then put them back together again, most often in a more refined or improved version. Virgoans can specialize in minutiae, clarity and detail. They may also specialize in system thinking, editing and task prioritization. Few things escape the laser-like assessment of the task at hand once Virgoans are fully engaged with whatever is before them. The analytical side of this sign works well with this practical efficiency, again earning Virgo a reputation for organization and detail. Their mental acuity works best when there is something tangible to focus upon. Then they are able to make an enormous contribution to whatever field of endeavour they are working in. Virgoans often make valuable employees and highly useful friends, owing to their capacity to dissect a problem, organize it into sections, and then suggest practical ways to get the ensuing job done.
Virgo is also a sign of manual dexterity. Many Virgoans are naturally good at, and drawn toward, tangible problems that require practical results through analysis, diagnosis and reconfiguration. This can range from problems to do with patchwork and quilting, (Virgo is the sign of crafts), to problems with engines, plumbing, designs and operational management. Virgo is all about system thinking, and solving complex problems in practical ways is a Virgo specialty. Many excellent PA’s and problem-solvers are born under this sign. The planetary ruler of Virgo – Mercury – lends an ability to break down complex problems through a thorough analysis of a situation, before finding a resolution based on synthesis of detail. The great gift of Virgo is the ability to translate many elements into a cohesive and workable form. By synthesizing information, details and protocol, Virgoans make best use of whatever is before them. The earthiness of this sign gives the grounded vision necessary to put improved practices into place.
Through the influence of Mercury, the function of communication can also be pronounced. Mercury is concerned with the translation of information, and disseminating what has been gathered in some tangible form. It is at the level of processing and defining data, ideas and information that Virgo excels. Anything to do with analytical processes has a strong Virgoan component to it. Furthermore, Virgo is associated with the function of wit, especially through the written or spoken word. Many fine writers have the sign of Virgo prominent in their chart, for this sign lends both humour and the ability to observe others with precision and detail. Virgoans tend to be more than capable of describing an individual or scene precisely, and doing so in the most economical or efficient means. Distilling language down into an essential form means that the words that are used have maximum impact. By communicating with the utmost precision, Virgoans can easily get their point across. These are the gifts of a discriminating mind.
Yet this mental acuity can also gives rise to other well-known Virgoan tendencies. These include a tendency to worry and to criticize, for it is the innate Virgoan need to categorize everything in a logical fashion that can lead them to constantly sort, compare and rate everything around them in relation to something else. One of the great challenges of this sign is the tendency to over-analyze. Virgoans tend to worry over intangibles that cannot, in fact, be changed. They can have very busy, active minds and it is essential that they find practical ways to ground and release this metal energy for physical and emotional well-being.
Virgoans need practical outlets for their skills, talents and abilities, yet these individuals tend to hold onto their energy and stay self-contained. They are not typically inclined to dramatize or seek attention from others for what is concerning them. They usually prefer to deal with their problems in their own unassuming way, so that those close to them may have no idea about what is actually going on. This tendency to “hold energy” is where the problems with their analytical mind begins. When there isn’t something external to focus their minds upon, Virgoans tends to turn their categorizing impulses against themselves. They start worrying, and trying to pick themselves and other people apart.
If there is no “pre-approved” category to place experiences and people into, Virgo can then become edgy or nervous. They tend to prefer have ‘a plan’. The threat of potential chaos is strangely upsetting to Virgo. When they do not have a plan or system to fall back on, they can fall victim to obsessive thoughts about what ‘may’ happen in their lives. Yet life itself is made up of a myriad of unpredictable moments. To defend themselves from this threat of chaos, Virgoans often seek to “organize” the intangible. This then becomes a real problem, leading to excess stress and mental exhaustion based on repetitive worrying. Problems with the stomach and digestive tract can occur as a direct consequence of all this nervous energy. It is useful for Virgo to remember that they are better off with a project to work on. Rather than trying to ‘work’ on what essentially can’t be controlled, it is best to channel this nervous energy into something external- a project, a problem, a hobby or a pet. Then Virgo can find the delicate balance between pragmatism and analysis that is needed to stay harmoniously self-contained.
Virgo is a sensitive and discrete sign, not given to displays of largesse or self-aggrandizement. They are likely to value humility and a can-do attitude over grandiose gestures. Yet Virgo must also be on guard against a tendency to always put the self last. The tendency to seek ways to be of service, while being at the same time self-effacing, can mean Virgoans end up playing roles like Cinderella, without ever getting to attend the ball. It is important for Virgo to identify their wealth of practical and analytical abilities, and gain recognition for the hard work they do. While they may not require applause or accolades, they do need to acknowledge to themselves how capable they are. Virgo individuals often demonstrate their talents in a myriad of understated, yet extremely effective, ways. Often, other people will have already recognized and taken advantage of their skills. Virgo can let themselves be manipulated by feelings of obligation, believing that their service is a duty that need not be rewarded. It is extremely important that Virgo get to enjoy the benefits of their hard work too!
With all this in mind, Virgo is nonetheless an Earth sign. The sensual aspect of this sign is often overlooked. By focusing on tendencies to nitpick and worry, the sensual side of Virgo tends to get left out. Many Virgoan individuals have a healthy interest in the things of the body and of the earth, and will take much delight in sensual pleasures and the bounties life can bring. This can range from the Virgoan hedonist who secretly balances wild weekends with mid-week detox and purification regimes to the yoga enthusiast who takes great pleasure in perfecting their “Salute to The Sun”. This is the sign of mind/body synthesis, and any activity that allows them to fuse mind with body benefits will be extremely beneficial to them. In many ways, Virgoans tend to have a very healthy awareness of their own body and its needs. By attending to the things of the body and taking lots of time out for fun, Virgoans can connect to the essence of who they are and what life on earth is all about. However they choose to indulge themselves, moderation is key. Virgo is connected with the body and with the health, so that any excess is often felt immediately. Many Virgoans will also have an innate interest in, and affinity with, herbs, vitamins and natural means of body care. They tend to gravitate toward fresh healthy foods, regular supplements and health-care routines. For Virgo, the body is very much a temple, and Virgoans tend to honour this sacred space through attending to regular house-keeping as well as indulging in all the good things that life has to offer.
When born into the sign of Virgo, you are gifted with the ability to find practical solutions to complex problems. You bring the essential details necessary to realize what would otherwise only be a magnificent, yet unattained, Grand Plan. It is important that you find external avenues for your busy and discriminating mind. Otherwise you risk depleting your mental and physical energies through constant worry and self-doubt. Your challenge is to make full use of your grounded practicality without letting fear of the intangible, or of the unknown, get in your way. Virgoans are born to bring in the harvest through the right use of both physical and mental energies. Your concern with practical efficiency, usefulness and economy of means marries well with your analytic tendencies and attention to detail. By recognizing your skills, talents and abilities you can then take your rightful place when the work is done and be present at the banquet when the feast is shared!
Moon Sign: Cancer
With the Moon in the sign of Cancer, you are likely to have an innate need to nurture, support and protect others. Cancer is a Water sign, and so, pertains to the emotional, psychological and spiritual dimensions of life. Your empathy for others is likely to be strong, and you will have an intuitive ability to sense what others need. Cancer is also a Cardinal sign, and so is concerned with taking action somehow. You are likely to feel a sense of responsibility that will impel you to take action where others well being is concerned. Cancer is a sign of emotional support; of deep connection to family, home, and togetherness. Therefore, you are likely to be strongly drawn to these kinds of experiences. A sense of emotional well being comes from the family and home connections that you create in your life.
When the Moon is in Cancer, it is strongly placed. The Moon rules Cancer, so is in its’ own sign. This will amplify the lunar qualities of emotion, empathy and intuition. You are likely to be strongly driven by emotion, influenced by your own ever-changing moods, as well as the moods of those around you. As the Moon is cyclic in nature, waxing and waning as it makes its way around the Earth, you too are likely to be a cyclical being. You are more influenced by your own inner cycles and instincts than logic or routine. You can use this sensitivity to great advantage if you learn to recognize your internal rhythms. Then you will know what you need in each moment, and will naturally follow your own inner path. Moon in Cancer people often do best when they can keep to their own schedules. The ebb and flow of emotion will affect their vitality, and so the kinds of activity that suit them from day to day.
You are likely to be very much influenced by the moods and feelings of those around you, and can be deeply affected by whatever environment you are in. The Moon is associated with the principle of flux and change, and it is quite likely that your own emotional state shifts and changes like the phases of the Moon. It is very important for those born with the Moon here learn to take responsibility for how sensitive and emotional they are. Otherwise, you may find yourself constantly tossed around in the sea of life, soaking up other peoples emotional and psychic states with little awareness of what is happening to you and why. For emotional balance, you need to recognize the difference between what is yours and not yours. Taking on the moods of others can distract you from your own highest path.
You may be unable to discern between your own feelings, and attitudes, and those of the people around you, for you are extremely impressionable, and likely to be instinctively responding to how others around you feel. This is excellent when it comes to nurturing and supporting others. You have an almost psychic sense of what they need and when! But for your own well-being, it can be problematic if you are constantly invested in others’ needs, with little conscious awareness, of what you need yourself! Ask yourself honestly if you know what your needs are. Can you define them? Do they depend upon the relative stance of other people? Are your true needs being met?
You are advised to take good care of this highly sophisticated emotional mechanism by making sure you stay centered and grounded. This can be achieved in many ways, including spending time alone in nature or by the water when you feel the need. Meditation and retreat will work wonders for you. Learning to invigorate your emotional self will be one of the smartest skills you learn in life. Your instincts are actually your best friend, and will serve you very well once you have learned to decipher between what is yours, and what is not. You must remember how readily inclined you are to soak up the atmosphere of what is going on around you, and so, stay somehow separated when involved in circumstances where it would be best for you to stay detached. This is difficult, but can be achieved through practice, and using mental imagery to affirm that you are protected and contained. Visualizing a calm and protective white or pale blue bubble around you can be very helpful. The yogic practice of pranayama (controlled breathing) is another excellent tool for keeping your psychic field clear and contained.
Born with the Moon in Cancer, you are likely to have a highly developed intuitive and emotional side. You are likely to have a strong empathy for others, and will feel impelled to take action in order to nurture, support and protect them. Your uncanny sense of what others need gives you the ability to stay one step ahead. You recognise the unspoken opportunity present in many situations, and can act in ways that give others what they need. This sensitivity can be also be used for your own benefit. Recognizing your own rhythms or tides means you know exactly what you need and when. Learning to acknowledge your own needs is important, and may take time. It is easier for you to sense where others are coming from than it yourself. But once this skill is learned, there is little to hold you back. Born with the Moon in Cancer, you are a natural homemaker, family person and friend. With your heightened sensitivity, you connect easily with others, and get great joy from seeing them thrive.
Its also suggested that with my moon in Cancer, I have a strong need for home life and family. While I dont really have strong ties with my family or a need to be domesticated, the family Ive created on my own (friends & loved ones) is of the up most importance to me. I had a strong need to have a place that is very much of my own, my home is my sanctuary and something I very much mentally need. I love being "domestic" and hosting parties and having guests over, but it comes from a different place, rather than it being family orientated.
Mercury in Libra
Libra communicators come across as very pleasing. Diplomacy comes naturally to these natives. At the very least, they take many pains to be diplomatic. Whether they succeed or not depends on their audience—but more on that later.
Mercury in Libra people long for equality in the intellectual world. They view mental affinity as one of the most important themes in any relationship they have. If they are not getting it (and many do not), they should look within themselves for answers. Perhaps they are trying too hard to score intellectual points with their partners instead of truly listening to what they are saying. Mercury in Libra attempts always to be fair in any discussion, but to more personal communicators, Libra's constant comparisons can, in effect, seem unfair! Libra can go off on so many tangents, and offer excessive disclaimers for any opinion presented, that they end up all over the place.
If you think Virgo is critical and a perfectionist, spend some time with a Mercury in Libra person (and many of them have Virgo Suns too). They can't quite help themselves. But because they always aim to be kind and fair, they employ tact to get their message across. Mercury in Libra comes across in an unassuming manner, and handles people with care. When they find fault with others, they express it gently, consciously tending to others' comfort levels. One accountant I know whose Mercury is in Libra feels she instinctively hones in on imbalances in her work. When her co-worker was struggling with "balancing the books", this lady immediately saw her co-worker's oversight. Instead of simply pointing it out and risking embarrassing him, she pointed to the general area of the mistake and said, "perhaps the problem is somewhere here?" This way, she stayed out of trouble, and no one had to feel uncomfortable.
Mercury in Libra looks for compromise. Middle ground is constantly sought. In fact, they are extraordinarily uncomfortable with extremes of opinion! This makes them excellent counselors and go-betweens, but it also gives rise to plenty of indecision in their personal lives. In their desire to find the best, fairest, most just choice, they can swing from a pro to a con, and back to a pro again--but we can't forget another "con" just to balance the last "pro". It can be dizzying for others to observe! They simply can't help but see the other side. This maddening characteristic leads to a strange paradox -- they can end up seemingly incapable of giving a compliment without a "but". After all, complimenting you is essentially drawing a conclusion, or forming an opinion. This is a paradox because Libra is charming, but give them a little time with something, and they will have a hard time arriving at a totally good (or totally bad) conclusion.
Their ability to think in the abstract gives them a good measure of objectivity. These people have a subtle intelligence. Their thoughts are generally dominated by relative thinking--they simply can't seem to evaluate their environment without comparing one thing with an other. This trait contributes to refined tastes.
Mercury in Libra is generally good at making connections with others, but remember that Libra can be a lazy sign--and for Mercury in Libra natives, this means mental laziness. This can prevent them from following up and maintaining the connections they've made.
Mercury in Libra hates to be thought of as the bad guy (or gal), and can end up trying to make too many people happy.
Mercury in Libra often has to turn to others for opinions when making a decision. The maddening part of it is this: Give these people an answer to their question, and they'll probably take the other side. For example, if they are deciding between two different restaurants, and you give them an answer, they are almost sure to suddenly see the other restaurant's merits. These natives play devil's advocate far too often. Many times they don't even truly believe the side they have taken--they are simply engaging in an intellectual argument. Mercury in Libra would be wise to look inside themselves to do a check on what they really feel every now and again. They can get so caught up in trying to win an argument and correcting the (perceived) biases in others' beliefs and actions that they totally lose sight of what really matters to them.
Venus in Virgo
Venus in Virgo men and women quietly (and often slowly) make their way into your heart. They are quite sensitive in love -- even insecure -- and this reserved, loner-like quality is part of their appeal. They prefer to play it safe in their relationships, and they need to be confident that you like them before they make a move. They are great listeners and they make it a habit to observe and learn all of your ins and outs. Their love can be of the Kindergarten variety -- they show they care by nagging or criticizing. Remember, though, that they are not trying to hurt you when they are pointing out the flaws in your thinking, plans, or even character. They truly are trying to help! Venus in Virgo is attracted to nondescript people who have largely gone unnoticed. Show-offs and know-it-alls turn them off.
Pleasing Venus in Virgo involves showing you appreciate them for all the little things they do -- and they do a lot. The problem is, they do these things so quietly that you may not always notice or credit them for all these kind gestures. They do need some space (after all, they're generally quite busy making everything work), so give it to them. Be genuine, not ostentatious. They are really not difficult to please after you have taken care of these basic needs. Avoid pushing your friends or family on them too fast -- remember they are a little shy. They aim to please, and are easily intimidated by your experiences. Let them know how much you value them, and they will reward you with devotion and a charming willingness to talk things out.
Mars in Virgo
These productive and busy people are goal-oriented, practical people. Although they can be a little scattered at times, simply because they are doing so many things at any give time, Mars in Virgo natives get things done—quite well! They have a knack for handling a wide variety of tasks at once, and a tendency to take on perhaps too much at the same time.
Most Mars in Virgo natives are not particularly aggressive by nature. Although they can be a little hard-nosed and critical at times, they rarely resort to pushing others around. Still, an annoyed Mars in Virgo native can be difficult to be around! Arouse their anger and they turn into complaining, over-critical nags. Generally, these natives don't make themselves nuisances, so this stage is unlikely to last for very long. It is a sensitive position, however. It doesn't take much to make these people nervous.
Mars in Virgo people are quite protective about their "system" for getting things done. Although rather humble in a general life sense, they can be quite particular about their methods—how they organize and accomplish their goals, mostly with work. Theirs is a nervous energy. Although they have some staying power, they can be restless and are not given to sticking with the same projects for too long.
These natives derive plenty of energy and life force from the things they do—their work, hobbies, and any kind of projects they take on. An idle Mars in Virgo native is a sorry sight, indeed. Fidgety, nervous, worried...all of these things are a sure sign that Mars in Virgo people have either too little to do, or far too much on their plates. There is a perfectionist at the heart of all people with this position. They'll be the first to deny this, but it's there! They worry when they are not producing anything, and they worry about whether what they've produced will measure up.
An earthy and sometimes nervous sexuality generally characterizes people with this position of Mars. In a sense, their performance in bed is similar to their work. These people want to be good at what they do. They will generally be open to experimentation, if only to feed their curiosity and to feel savvy. There's often a shy and humble side to Mars in Virgo in any area that involves putting themselves out there and letting go (areas ruled by Mars). But experience and knowledge are important to these natives, and this drive generally wins over their natural reticence.
When Venus or Mars is in Virgo, there is generally a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex to them is a bodily function, necessary for health and general well-being. Everyday stresses and tensions are released in sex, whether it's with others or with themselves. They are turned on by people who have largely gone unnoticed. Simple and sweet is the way they like their bed partners. They also get turned on by the idea that they are your slave. They love doing little things for you, and get worked up when they know you appreciate all the things they do. They can be a little insecure about their own bodies, and they make up for it by paying close attention to their methods of turning you on. They are very respectful of your likes and dislikes, and focus on the things that have had the most success. Virgo is the sign of the virgin, and this aspect gives others the idea that they are very selective. Don't be entirely fooled by this, however. They are not as picky as they appear. In fact, they love imperfections and have the best time with a partner who needs care. They'll make a project out of you, and you will likely never feel quite so attended to with anyone else. Their fantasies often feature the downtrodden and inexperienced. They are insatiably curious about sex, although many don't take their curiosity much beyond fantasy. Voyeurism is especially appealing to these lovers. We are giving Virgo a little more attention than other signs simply because we feel this sign has been misunderstood on the topic of sex. They are generally not as picky and particular as their reputation says—and they are not as "virginal" either. In fact, they want to please and to be savvy in the lovemaking arena. They'll generally "do" more than many other signs, and they're not afraid of getting dirty either, within the confines of a healthy relationship.
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*Venus & Mars combinations*
Venus in Earth, Mars in Earth (Romantic Earth, Earthy Desires): You are a sensualist—you enjoy a relationship that starts slowly and lasts a long time, and that is the same way you feel about sex! You need certainty in a relationship, and if you have that feeling, you are at your romantic best. You enjoy sex on a raw level, and you may easily get hung up on the physical side of desire. Your partner needs to understand that you express your love in real, tangible ways—by fixing things, solving problems, being there. Your motto may as well be, “Actions speak louder than words.” Not all lovers will understand this, and some may wish you were more openly romantic. However, the ideal lover for you will take comfort in your endurance and reliability, appreciate the fact that you lay down solid foundations for a relationship, and understand your “matter of fact” approach to romance.
A dedicated partner is of utmost importance to you. You can be quite possessive, and downright jealous if uncertainty in a relationship prevails. Sex is an elemental force in your life, and you need a partner who is accessible. You appreciate solid, long-standing, and reliable relationships. Although somewhat cautious about entering new relationships, once you do decide, you are generally in it for the long haul. You feel most loved with physical proof of commitment. You work hard at making your relationships work on a physical and practical level. Some partners may find your approach to love overly practical—perhaps even conservative. You are most receptive to solid expressions of love that are tangible and easily measured. Similarly, you express your love and affection in ways that are rarely flowery or grand. You require, more than most, physical presence, steadiness, reliability, and comfort in your relationships. Once committed, you quickly become annoyed if your partner demands proof of your love. You might say, "I'm here, aren't I?" Physical expressions of affection and commitment are most appreciated, and you may view flowery romance and excitement as superfluous or even superficial.
Venus and Mars in the same signs: You are vibrant, sexual, and charismatic. For the most part, your needs in love and sex are straightforward, making it easier for you than most to feel satisfied and to know what you want in a partnership.
More specifically: Venus in Virgo, Mars in Virgo: In love, you are at once commanding and easygoing. You are loving, sensual, earthy, and possessive. You don't like to be wrong, and you can be enormously soothing and comforting to less comfortable partners than yourself. Highly sensual, you are easily aroused. However, you may be very focused on the physical side of love. You seek a relationship that promises to be long-lasting, and you don't easily leave a union. You become extremely agitated if sex is not forthcoming. Sex to you is physical "proof" of love and commitment.
Jupiter in Aries
Jupiter in Aries brings you the opportunity to develop an adventurous spirit, moral leadership ability, initiative, self-sufficiency and a talent for positive action relating to education, philosophy or religion. These qualities are necessary in order to expand your personality and life experience. Endowed with a pioneering instinct, courage and much physical energy you may embark on a personal quest for knowledge, understanding and experience that will ultimately lead you to a new and better way of life. You have the ability to carve out your own place in society.
Jupiter in Aries individuals attract the most good fortune when they take the lead, initiate, inspire others, and demonstrate enthusiasm and courage. Prosperous areas are ones that allow them to head and lead, and to innovate.
As a Fire sign Jupiter, you identify strongly with your own opinions, beliefs, and perceptions, and you may take it quite personally if others disagree with them! You make your own opportunities, and you are at your best when you are thinking in big terms, taking calculated risks, and displaying confidence.
Saturn in Sagittarius
Saturn in Sagittarius is serious when it comes to philosophy, education and religion. They are highly principled, believing that people earn their achievements through hard work. Reputation is very important to them. They may not have been able to get the education they desired, so many are self-taught to a degree. Intellectual capability is important to them. They may be skeptical and need to prove their theories.
Sagittarius Saturn is conservative, and they change only with much resistance. They may be very narrow-minded when it comes to philosophy or religion. With Saturn in Sagittarius, it gains structure and goals. They love to learn and now they have the focus they need. Alternatively, they can also develop tunnel vision.
They may be attracted to games of chance. They enjoy the adventure and excitement associated with it. They are very logical. It is hard for them to appreciate the magic in a sunset or a rainbow. They may fear they will be punished if they don't live on the straight and narrow. If they let fear rule their life, they may become cynical, critical and forlorn.
Alternatively, Saturn in Sagittarius can become disillusioned with authority and create their own through the use of strong intuition. By letting go of their fear, they can evolve into a better self. They still want their freedom, just with rules. They like to travel.
Sagittarius Saturn must learn to trust. They may be open and honest, or careless, rebellious and indecisive. Unless they learn to open up, they will continue to suffer. They may need to judge more carefully or learn what is appropriate and what is not. Once they work through their issues they can become a recognized authority in their chosen field or gain distinction in some other way.
Neptune in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn is reserved and refined, especially in areas related to control, power, fame and success. They dream of wealth and power, even if they don't quite know how to attain it. They can use their imagination to put just about any idea to practical use and turn it into money.
Capricorn Neptune is serious and likes to think things over. They have the ability to concentrate on anything that happens, so they can solve any problems that occur. Detail work is something they usually excel at. On the other hand, they may tend towards melancholy, secrets and deceit. When they get this way, they want to shut themselves away from the world.
Capricorn Neptune may be a bit conservative and traditional. They reflect on spiritual matters, and are inspired by the Great Masters of art, music and literature. Many become cynics or critics. They may be accused of not having enough compassion.
Neptune in Capricorn excels at organization and bureaucracy, and they are conscious of status. They like to be in authority. Their only problem is getting reality to work as they think it should. They may envision a system that runs smoothly, is responsive to the needs of all those involved, and that promotes on merit. It can be frustrating for them to deal with the harsh reality instead.
Uranus in Sagittarius
Uranus in Sagittarius is strong on intuition. They are gifted with visions, precognitive dreams and the imagination. Their premonitions may be uncanny. If they develop these gifts it will serve them well. They may be attracted to practice the occult arts. They may be very religious and have a good understanding of educational theory. They may also want to help humanity as a whole. They like to travel and learn from their new surroundings.
Sagittarius Uranus may also be very eccentric or erratic in behavior. They may hold their own opinions on the law and religion. They could be rebellious in nature, and this may lead them into legal troubles. They may only see their side of the story, being oblivious to everyone else. They enjoy shocking people by what they say or do. They are adventurous and seek independence.
Sagittarius Uranus loves science and philosophy. They love to keep abreast of the latest discoveries. They don't like conventional thinking; they like to start anew. They are not afraid to put themselves in danger to seek knowledge. They love to be free to say what they want and go where they wish. Generous, open-hearted and progressive, they may stun others with their ways.
Uranus in Sagittarius does not like the rigidity of academics, but they understand the need for it. They are optimistic. They may find that their own beliefs come from feeling the spirituality that lives in everything around them. They are interesting to talk to, and they are always direct. This person is very open to trying new things. They may clash with those who hold traditional scientific or religious views.
Pluto in Scorpio
Pluto in Scorpio is ruled by strong emotions. Not only do they react according to their own emotions, but they can understand how others feel as well. They are drawn to activities that will involve them emotionally. Intensity is the key word for them.
Scorpio Pluto knows how to bring things that are hidden out into the light. They fight for human rights and they have a talent for helping the unconventional become accepted. Topics that capture their interest may include the occult, sex, the mind, death, genetic engineering and cloning.
Scorpio Pluto may tend towards dark thoughts. They naturally filter out the good and happy things, focusing on the darker, secret motives of those around us. They may feel that they know best in every situation. On the other hand, individuals born with Pluto in Scorpio may try to remain positive so strongly that they find themselves in denial, finding out when it is too late about all that was happening right under their noses.
Their emotional courage, deep understanding and the ability to face their own wounds as well as those they have given to others can create a strong person you want on your side. They can be rather manipulative or controlling at times. They tend to question all the rules and may feel oppressed by the status quo. Their passionate natures incline them to experience as much as possible. They also have great willpower.
They can focus on gaining wealth and power if so inclined.
